So, you’re a member of this temple and you’re looking for more “Jewish” involvement, or you’re just out to make new friends. Or maybe it’s both! The reasons for joining a havurah are up to you. At TEC many groups of friends, havurot, have been formed and are meeting the needs of many of our members. Each havurah is typically composed of 6 to 12 couples and/or individuals who get together about once a month to expand their Jewish way of life. Everyone must be a member of TEC members since joining a Havurah is one of the benefits of membership. A havurah is an excellent way to get together with other temple members with similar interests. It’s also a good way to welcome new members by providing a small, nonintimidating social group for them to join.
What does a Havurah do?
It’s up to you! Your group can enjoy a Shabbat dinner together, have a Havdallah and dessert, enjoy a Hanukah party with kids, build a Sukkah and eat under the stars, or even go camping together. Each havurah determines the types of activities it wants. You can ask our Rabbi or Cantor to attend a meeting to discuss a variety of topics related to Jewish life. Why not ask everyone to read an article, or see a movie and then get together to discuss it? Take a trip to Catalina Island together, or go to the Skirball Museum for an outing. A day in the park is a wonderful summertime activity with all the kids and food and games. Any activity can be even more enjoyable done with friends.
How can I join a Havurah?
It’s very easy. Simply fill out a request form by printing it here and returning it to the TEC office or stop by the TEC office. A Havurah coordinator will contact you and ask if you would like to form a new havurah or join an existing one. There is a new havurah start up meeting scheduled once a year and everyone who is interested in joining a havurah is invited. Every effort will be made to match you up with people in your age group who have similarly aged children and who live reasonably close to you.
Can other people be added to an existing Havurah?
Yes. This usually happens in one of two ways. There may be an open slot in a havurah for a new couple/individual when the havurah coordinator inquires about it, or if you volunteer the information. Sometimes, a member of a havurah has friends whom they believe would be a good addition to the havurah. They ask the other members if it is OK to invite them to the next activity to meet the group. If others are agreeable, and the new couple/individual looks like a good match, the havurah can decide to include them as members.